Lessons Learned In 2018 | My Life Goals For 2019

Lessons Learned In 2018 | My Life Goals For 2019

How would you describe your 2018 in a sentence? Mine would be “A Year Of Lessons”. Why you may ask? Because I learned a lot of lessons the hard way this year, I have been anxiously counting the hours till this year was officially over. With 2018 less than 12 hours away I’m in a great enough […]

11 Heartbreaking lessons I learned from a toxic Friendship

11 Heartbreaking lessons I learned from a toxic Friendship

Friends can either be your greatest strength or your biggest mistake Friends are stuff nightmares are made off.  Have you ever heard of the saying “no man is an island”? It is true that we all need friends and people around is to make our life much more interesting. But what happens when your supposed friend […]

25 valuable lessons I learned from past relationships you need to know too

25 valuable lessons I learned from past relationships you need to know too

Breakups shouldn’t just be about the pain Love and heartbreak are like two sides of the same coin. I believe there is a thin line between Love and heartbreak. When we get our heart-broken, it’s not because there is something wrong with love, it is because we fell for the wrong person, at the wrong […]

A LETTER TO MY TEENAGE SELF

A LETTER TO MY TEENAGE SELF

We are going to be fine, I promise. Dear Boluwatife, There is so much I want to tell you, so much I wish I could say to you, if only I could turn back the hands of time. I know I can’t turn back the hands of time. Instead I write the letter as a […]

20 RELATIONSHIP RED FLAGS YOU SHOULD STOP IGNORING NOW

20 RELATIONSHIP RED FLAGS YOU SHOULD STOP IGNORING NOW

Have you ever felt like something is wrong or missing in your relationship? Or that you partner is hiding something from you, or you are just not happy in your relationship. Chances are your intuitions are right, and something is wrong with that man/woman. Here are 20 red flags you should stop ignoring in your relationship now. […]

SO YOU THINK YOU DESERVE TO BE LOVED?

SO YOU THINK YOU DESERVE TO BE LOVED?

Do you doubt yourself? Do you feel lonely and unloved? Do you think you are unlovable? Then this post is for you. “So you think you deserve to be loved”! I remember vividly the first time someone asked me this question. We were arguing and next thing I heard is “so you really believe you deserve […]

25 THINGS YOU NEED TO STOP DOING TO YOURSELF NOW!

25 THINGS YOU NEED TO STOP DOING TO YOURSELF NOW!

Many people tell us how to treat others, what to do to others, and how not to treat others. But a lot of people don’t tell us how to treat our selves and how not to treat our selves. Without a doubt, life is challenging,hectic and stressful. A lot of us put our self through […]

30 THINGS BEFORE 30 BUCKET LIST

30 THINGS BEFORE 30 BUCKET LIST

I have been feeling nostalgic recently, I highly suspect it has to do with my recent graduation from college. I’ve been filled with thoughts o now that school’s done what’s next? I remember my teenage years, when I couldn’t wait to grow up. Growing up is not easy, now that I have a few years […]

5 WAYS TO “NOT BE USED”

5 WAYS TO “NOT BE USED”

WHAT DOES IT MEAN TO BE USED? Using someone means to play with someone or their feelings to achieve something and forget them without continuing any relationship with them . This phrase “use” is seen negatively because no help or expected results are achieved in return. Ambitious and desperate people use others to fulfill their […]

WHY MISS INDEPENDENT CAN’T FIND MR RIGHT

WHY MISS INDEPENDENT CAN’T FIND MR RIGHT

You are beautiful, smart, hard-working and independent. So why does it feel almost impossible to find a man? Read on to find out.  YOU ARE LOOKING IN THE WRONG PLACE YOU HAVE LOW SELF ESTEEM YOU ARE EMOTIONALLY UNAVAILABLE YOU SET YOUR STANDARDS TOO HIGH YOU ARE ATTRACTED TO OR YOU DATE THE WRONG TYPE […]